Thursday, November 12, 2009

Just when I thought i had it all....


When I was an infant, I’d speak with my eyes.

I’d cry for food, And coo for a toy.

But when I learnt to speak, I needed new songs to sing.

Just when I thought I had it all, I thought of another thing.

At teenage I had new friends, My mom didn’t know about.

She’d prepared my favourite dish, But I had eaten out.

Dad treated me like a princess, To me he wasn’t the king.

Just when I thought I had it all, I thought of another thing.

Now I’m old, all friends have split, I speak a lot but no one cares.

I wish people understand my gestures, I cry to have my thoughts shared.

I wish I can have my favourite stuff, I hope for youth’s zing.

Just when I thought I had it all, I thought of another thing.

Friday, November 6, 2009

Lessons learnt


I got a mail from a friend a few days back. Wont bore you with the contents but the mail was on the lines that every person you meet, you meet for a reason. Normally forwards don’t really leave much of an impact on me… even if it is about child abuse and stuff (maybe I m just not cut out for sympathy) but I don’t know why, that mail got me thinking big time. And more I thought about it, more I realized, it is true. Alteast from my context. I have met a good many people in life. And must admit, most of them just served to boil my blood. And yet what I didn’t realize from each blood boiling session that I had learnt a new lesson every time anything happened.

  • Never trust a person who never has a good word to say about any person in the whole world – every one according to the person is an idiot… and deserved the mean things he/she did to them. Never trust them coz as soon as you go out of their sight you become one of those idiots according to them. (courtesy, Frank)
  • You can be in love and yet not be jealous of your “better half” when he/she speaks with members of opposite gender… all you need in life is trust in your partner and confidence in yourself. That way the relationship remains fresh without any petty differences and you remain best friends with the one you love. (mads and swap)
  • Everyone can get over all their insecurities about relationships (including commitment phobia) once they meet the right one. No matter what happens, if its meant to be, it will happen. (ripper)
  • Everyone says be cautious about people you meet online, never trust them etc. but sometimes the best people in the world you are meant to know are just not available in your vicinity. I have met sweetest possible guy I could have ever known in my life on the internet. There is no way any other person guy or gal can ever compete this person’s sweetness (that’s right, Mr. IIMA, talking about you)
  • There is no place on earth that can be boring if you have the best possible friends in the whole wide world. You can go to the same coffee shop for more than 6 years and you will never get tired of the setting or the company coz the best times you have had in your life is with those people. Heck you can watch “tumsa nahi dekha” and still enjoy it. Friends like this last forever. (dips, prats, raj and aks)
  • It doesn’t take long in life to “move on” after a break up (wont tell you who I learnt this from, I want to live for some more time)
  • Girly girls don’t know a rat’s *** about football but they will always ALWAYS pretend that they support Man U. And their favourite basketball player is always Michael Jordan
  • No one I know can beat Pratik as far as instruments are concerned
  • The persons who you do not agree with or hate at first might just turn out to be your best friends forever… so choose before you hate someone. (Again, raj, aks, dips and prats)

There are so many things I want to write but offhand I can’t exactly put some thoughts into words. All in all I still don’t know the purpose of this blog. But I just wanted to get some junk from my brain out there. Maybe there is something for someone to learn from it. J

Friday, October 30, 2009

everything that makes us what we are



Often we tend to take everything around us for granted. We never stop to take time and think how it would be if life wasn’t the way we know it. Its like, its only when we block our airways that we realize what a relief it is to breathe. And mind you- even before blocking your nose and mouth, instinctively, you breathe in as much as air as possible- fill your lungs till it hurts. And yet, even as our instincts fight for oxygen we cant stop complaining about, say, the weird stuffy smell that is typical while traveling in a crowded bus or a train – or even the pollution which comes as a part and parcel of the air we take in to survive.
On a completely different note, I keep wondering about people who keep complaining about other factors of the society. It might be population (which we are a part of) or poverty or even educational systems for that matter. Alma mater is the biggest scape-goat of them all. Alma mater- the college which X had ended up in, because of whatever good or bad results he had acquired in his latest exams. According to X, the crowd was tacky, the buildings of his new college were too small, the campus too inconsequential. In the same inconsequential college, Mr. A joined the cultural group and turned out to be good at everything he tried his hand on and nowadays is a mini celebrity in his own right. Mr. B on the other hand was interested in sports. The grounds were bad but he gathered a like minded team nonetheless and played every sport he could possibly manage and finally got a dream job at the Army. And while they were at it, X just complained about no canteen facilities and low society crowd in the premises. The sad part is, like in mathematics, X is an unknown number- and a big one at that.
Mr. X went on to take up a job in the USA. While he used to throw used wrappers on the street when he was at college- because everybody did it and who wants to take a trip to the dustbins anyway- due to strict laws he did not dare to so much throw a dry twig on the road. Then he marveled at the cleanliness of the country. He picked up an accent and thought of it as a proof of superiority over his own people. And since it is real life and not a story he never realized the true worth of his own background, his own alma mater which shaped him into what he was, his own countrymen and in effect his own country.
Mr. A, Mr. B and Mr. X all lived as happily as life allows ever after. The only difference was- X got the best of situations and A and B made the best of situations. You can only afford to be X when u have everything ready made.